Wired for Love by Stan Tatkin

Author:Stan Tatkin [Stan Tatkin, PsyD]
Language: eng
Format: epub, mobi, pdf
ISBN: 9781608826407
Publisher: New Harbinger Publications

Prevent problems before they arise. Knowing how to repair damage is helpful, but it is even better to anticipate and avoid difficulties. Of course, it won’t be possible to avert all challenges. Life doesn’t work that way. But as experts, there is a lot you and your partner can do to please and keep each other happy. Rather than waiting until you see trouble brewing, be proactive with your partner. Make a habit of saying and doing the things that make him or her feel good. Don’t assume your partner already knows how much you love him or her; don’t figure you’ve already adequately expressed everything you appreciate about your partner. Find new and creative ways to convey the three or four things that make your partner feel good. In this way, you make deposits you can draw on when the going gets rough.

You may be wondering, what if my partner and I disagree about what our three or four bad things and three or four good things are? The answer is that it doesn’t really matter. It isn’t actually critical that you correctly identify your own three or four things or know how to scratch your own itch. What’s important is that you know how to do these things with your partner, and vice versa.

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